Why was I not born a girl?
 

I came to the conclusion that I don't enjoy being a man at all, and I admire girls much more than I will ever admire men. I'm not even kidding, but if I could financially afford it, who knows, I'd definitely go that one step further and change sex. This has nothing to do with being uncomfortable with my male state either, it's just that so often I whish I was born a girl and I feel cursed.

shut up and do the washing up woman for christs sake and get me beer while your at it.

I like being a guy, not to be sexist, but girls have it worst.

Yeah, but I've always thought that I'd get the best of both worlds for having been a man before.

Well that could be true. But if you can't afford it save so you can have it. But you will need a lot of therapy for a change.

I know, I have a couple of friends who have gone all the way and needed extended therapy or some who are still coming to terms with their feminine side taking over. I deal with it by trying to feel comfortable with who I am, but still I wish I was a female while it's just me and me together. I dunno, it's kinda difficult to explain something like that but I feel like Brian the bricklayer wishing he turned into his wife so there were two Janes, instead of just one.

I am comfortable with being a gay male, I don't want to change that. But I can see why some people are like that. It is that you just got more female hormones in you than male hormones. That is what makes you want to be a femine person. I just think you are coming to the realization that you prefer to be a female person then a male person. That takes gut to admit it.

i have a cousin who had the sex change - went from a boy to a girl, and now she's a lesbian. pretty strange. apparently it had nothing to do with sexuality - he was never into guys. she was born a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

That's common in transexuals to still prefer girls after the sex change. It's not like I come across as being particularly gay or whatever either, it's just that I would prefer to be a female, deep deep down. I don't even know too well about the hormone thing either, nevr noticed anything particularly strange in me.

why not just get the tits?

I know someone who's halfway and I think (s)he's pretty comfortable with it. hell, until it was explained that her name is "Brent" and not "Bren", my wife assumed she was really a woman.

Brent's boyfriend (whom we call "Patch" because of the eyepatch he always wears) is attributed with the hilariously defensive quote: "just because my chick has a dick, doesn't mean I'm gay".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sjo3SxfttKU

Like in this episode?

If you do get a sex change, I will start calliing you dudette.

And nobody wants that.

Stop fucking with my brain, I thought about getting one tit instead of both before, just in case I'd change my mind. Again, I'm being serious about this.

for once, I was being serious!

don't get just one tit. that's no fun at all.

honestly though, just go all the way if you are going to do it at all.

Genesis P-Orridge is fucking creepy (creepier) these days.

Homosexuality, as a mental health issue, was removed from the DSM over a generation ago, however, Gender Identity Disorder is still on the books.



Someone get sarramkop a Nurse and Medication, stat!

hmm. i'd consider it a blessing that you weren't born a girl. almost all of them are pretty fucking illogical and ridiculous.

but i tend to think maybe i should have been a girl too. or maybe i'm secretly gay. every girl i've ever been attracted to is VERY boyish looking -- and girls that most dudes think is hot, like jennifer lopez and eva longoria and so on, i think are just disgusting looking (and probably disgusting individuals). i actually really like clothes a lot, especially women's clothes.. and i enjoy a finger in my ass. i tend to not have fun at all fucking a girl's vagina but a nice blowjob is amazing!

i know those are all weird sexual things and they probably don't have any real light to shed on me being gay or if i'd be better as a woman, but i secretly think we all have curiosities, desires, etc.. obviously.. and i also theorize that we're all secretly somewhat gay. i mean, every girl i've ever known has said that other girls are hot, and a few of us (me included) guys will admit if a guy's good looking or attractive or whatever. if we can admit someone of our own sex is attractive -- if we recognize this, if we ourselves are ATTRACTED -- then doesn't that make us somewhat "gay"?

anyway, yeah, i used to wonder why i wasn't a girl when i was little. and luckily about a year ago my girlfriend cut her hair really short so she looks exactly like a boy with boobs, and that was enough for me to be happy and enjoy the best of both worlds kinda. so yeah.

Who was to know you would feel this way? You were born a boy because, well, thems the breaks. Shit happens.

being a girl is lovely. it's so much easier to be manipulative because you can do it without being sleazy.

Don't make him feel worse.

just sayin.

Ok. So anywaise, whats up?

Had I been born a girl I would be absolutely giddy about some recent weight loss instead of just really pleased.

Nice to see you back, if only temporarily.

Edit:
Much/most of my other behavior is straight up "shoulda been born a girl."

i don't know, man. not a lot of girls i know would be rocking the cape.

You're not hanging out with the right girls, then.

Besides, that picture is like 5 years old now.

that question explains a lot, and plagues my mind eternally

I want to say that I'm sorry if I made light of your post Porks.

I didn't really mean to, but sometimes my Master Control Program (Ono Sendai AI.5) overrides all access to teledigital communications.

so in a sense, I blame faulty hardware myself.

my circuitry is not exactly bleeding edge, and as you can see my BIOS could use a flash update.

[Genesis was a real ruiner on my part]

MCP has authorized me to tell you that people around you should accept you for who you are, not what you are. if they don't, they aren't worth the bother.

your opinion on this subject is truely the only one that matters. my logic paths were previously unable to compute a serious answer.

so, yeah. sorry.

bzzxzzt....pop......spark *******

i think i'd be rubbish at being a girl

you would make a pretty girl. no wait. i like you as a pretty man.

I can't imagine not having a penis. I like the idea of being a key, not a keyhole.

have you tried wearing the clothes around to see if it feels natural? I'd have a problem not wearing boxers...

I much prefer females to males overall, and I find they seem much more powerful and interesting beings. However, I kind of like being a male who "gets" this rather than feeling the need to cross over completely. 98% of the women I've ever been physically involved with were actively bi, and one was a bull dyke lesbian who didn't do any other guys (ever). I used to get into cross dressing a lot, but I don't have the figure to do it justice like I used to. Even then, though, I felt I was trying to be in both genders at once, not leaving my birth one behind.

Of course this has nothing to do with your desires or feelings of gender inadequecy, other than to say there are a lot more than "two" ways of looking at it all (and that's without even taking personal sexual preference into the formula; I remember when nearly all of my male friends were gay, and I just couldn't fathom why when they had such great taste in everything else they would want to fuck such ugly creatures as men.)

i wouldn't want to be a boy, but you guys wouldn't want to be girls if you had to deal with shaving your legs, armpits, what-have-yous, doing your hair, makeup, nails; periods, birth control, plucking your eyebrows, childbirth, wearing a bra, DEALING WITH MEN etc etc etc. it's a pain in the ass sometimes.

Exactly. As a man, I can grow my hair and throw on a dress and look beautiful without all of that shit. If I could just get back down to below 140 lbs, I could any way.

Well, plenty of men take the initiave to throw on dresses already and look great!

You seem to be forgeting about Skid Row here.

what i'm saying is that if you were to live like a typical american girl, it would be a pain in the ass.

Being a woman is great. Minus menstruation.

i bother with doing all that shit because i think it's worth it, personally.

Parents should not make this decision, till the kid is able to make their own thoughts on that.

if i had kids (and i am not planning on it, but i'm also not ruling it out.) i would support and encourage any decision they made or lifestyle they chose to lead, provided it would make them happy. say if i had a daughter and she felt more comfortable as a male, i'm all for it.