Why was I not born a girl?
 

I came to the conclusion that I don't enjoy being a man at all, and I admire girls much more than I will ever admire men. I'm not even kidding, but if I could financially afford it, who knows, I'd definitely go that one step further and change sex. This has nothing to do with being uncomfortable with my male state either, it's just that so often I whish I was born a girl and I feel cursed.

shut up and do the washing up woman for christs sake and get me beer while your at it.

I like being a guy, not to be sexist, but girls have it worst.

Yeah, but I've always thought that I'd get the best of both worlds for having been a man before.

Well that could be true. But if you can't afford it save so you can have it. But you will need a lot of therapy for a change.

I know, I have a couple of friends who have gone all the way and needed extended therapy or some who are still coming to terms with their feminine side taking over. I deal with it by trying to feel comfortable with who I am, but still I wish I was a female while it's just me and me together. I dunno, it's kinda difficult to explain something like that but I feel like Brian the bricklayer wishing he turned into his wife so there were two Janes, instead of just one.

I am comfortable with being a gay male, I don't want to change that. But I can see why some people are like that. It is that you just got more female hormones in you than male hormones. That is what makes you want to be a femine person. I just think you are coming to the realization that you prefer to be a female person then a male person. That takes gut to admit it.

i have a cousin who had the sex change - went from a boy to a girl, and now she's a lesbian. pretty strange. apparently it had nothing to do with sexuality - he was never into guys. she was born a lesbian trapped in a man's body.

That's common in transexuals to still prefer girls after the sex change. It's not like I come across as being particularly gay or whatever either, it's just that I would prefer to be a female, deep deep down. I don't even know too well about the hormone thing either, nevr noticed anything particularly strange in me.

why not just get the tits?

I know someone who's halfway and I think (s)he's pretty comfortable with it. hell, until it was explained that her name is "Brent" and not "Bren", my wife assumed she was really a woman.

Brent's boyfriend (whom we call "Patch" because of the eyepatch he always wears) is attributed with the hilariously defensive quote: "just because my chick has a dick, doesn't mean I'm gay".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sjo3SxfttKU

Like in this episode?

If you do get a sex change, I will start calliing you dudette.

And nobody wants that.

Stop fucking with my brain, I thought about getting one tit instead of both before, just in case I'd change my mind. Again, I'm being serious about this.

for once, I was being serious!

don't get just one tit. that's no fun at all.

honestly though, just go all the way if you are going to do it at all.

Genesis P-Orridge is fucking creepy (creepier) these days.

Homosexuality, as a mental health issue, was removed from the DSM over a generation ago, however, Gender Identity Disorder is still on the books.



Someone get sarramkop a Nurse and Medication, stat!

hmm. i'd consider it a blessing that you weren't born a girl. almost all of them are pretty fucking illogical and ridiculous.

but i tend to think maybe i should have been a girl too. or maybe i'm secretly gay. every girl i've ever been attracted to is VERY boyish looking -- and girls that most dudes think is hot, like jennifer lopez and eva longoria and so on, i think are just disgusting looking (and probably disgusting individuals). i actually really like clothes a lot, especially women's clothes.. and i enjoy a finger in my ass. i tend to not have fun at all fucking a girl's vagina but a nice blowjob is amazing!

i know those are all weird sexual things and they probably don't have any real light to shed on me being gay or if i'd be better as a woman, but i secretly think we all have curiosities, desires, etc.. obviously.. and i also theorize that we're all secretly somewhat gay. i mean, every girl i've ever known has said that other girls are hot, and a few of us (me included) guys will admit if a guy's good looking or attractive or whatever. if we can admit someone of our own sex is attractive -- if we recognize this, if we ourselves are ATTRACTED -- then doesn't that make us somewhat "gay"?

anyway, yeah, i used to wonder why i wasn't a girl when i was little. and luckily about a year ago my girlfriend cut her hair really short so she looks exactly like a boy with boobs, and that was enough for me to be happy and enjoy the best of both worlds kinda. so yeah.

Who was to know you would feel this way? You were born a boy because, well, thems the breaks. Shit happens.

being a girl is lovely. it's so much easier to be manipulative because you can do it without being sleazy.

Don't make him feel worse.

just sayin.