And you may be fooling yourself about life...

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&e...wingly&spell=1

Many young women are just looking for the next best thing. A guy with more money, a guy who is better looking, a guy who is higher up on the social ladder etc. Basically their early years are filled with insecurities so the better they see the guy being than the next guy the better their self-worth. As they get older they still look for the security first and foremost but after that they want a friend someone that they can communicate with, someone that makes them laugh, someone they can trust, someone they know has their best interest at heart.

Older women who cheat generally are unhappy in their relationship because one of the main ingredients of happiness are missing or they are still very insecure and any man desiring them makes them feel better about themselves.

^yup

"I don't want no scrub"

That is the truth.

I not only hook up with the wrong women, I have children with them, and consider getting back together with them. Life is fucking confusing. Fucking is confusing life.

carry condoms my friend or if you already have enough kids get fixed. Even if down the line you find that one and only forever woman you can have the vasectomy reversed...

with the right set of ears, worg women can be pretty fucking HOT.

Yeah, I was looking into that when I started dating my last gf then she decided to get an IUD. Now I don't know if we'll continue to have on again off again sex or not. So I suppose I should watch that required video they (the HMO) sent back then...

See, that's what gets me. I was by far the best boyfriend a girl could ever want with that last girl I was with -- paid for everything, gave great sex, never started fights; I am extremely successful in life, because I work hard, and worked hard in our relationship, etc., etc., etc. I went out of my way every day to make her feel loved. I wrote her 1000 reasons why I loved her; made a book that was 200 pages long with each page listing and detailing 5 reasons on each page -- 1000 reasons! I waited in line for a Wii for her for 17 hours. I traveled everywhere with her, we got along great. I burned her 3 or 4 new cd's a week, I burned her movies every week, I turned her on to so many awesome things... we never really had any real problems.

...I still got cheated on, after 7 years, with some dorky fat slob who is older than me but has nothing to show for his life at all, who had never even been with a girl before.

My ex's reason? She said that I was too good of a guy to be with her. THe fuck? She said, "You deserve better than me, tha'ts why I cheated." Uh, what? But now when she visits the state, she still wants to get together, but I don't.

Fuck that stupid bitch.

Girls like pricks, dude. Don't you know?

it's about to get real for a minute. hova's much ballyhooed "99 problems": why do we care? why was this a hit? it's not a celebration. it's a cry for HELP. dude is depressed, son. don't let that bombastic beat fool you. jay has NINETY-NINE PROBLEMS. who cares if a "bitch ain't one." DUDE HAS 99 PROBLEMS. how many do you have? five? on a bad day, maybe 12? have you ever tried to list 99 problems? by like 45 you're probably writing "i never owned a sega game gear and have always been mad about it" and "out of laffy taffy :(((." i don't give a damn if a bitch is my problem, at least i've got one problem to worry about. i can write that problem on the back of my hand and not forget about it. jay-z needs a goddamn moleskine to keep his straight. dude probably has a blackberry to manage his drama. who wants to live like that? nobody. and that'

Yeah, I probably have like 10 - tops, and I'm regularly depressed as it is. Poor guy.

i went back to my ex because he knows exactly how to torture my mind (and my body....) and i secretly love it, he knows exactly which buttons to push and there's always a little tension (not a bad thing) and suspense, he knows how to keep me running around pacing, constantly checking my phone, like a 15 year old girl. it keeps things a little (a lot) more interesting.

"you must spread rep around before giving some to atsonicpark"

-----

i cheated once, and it was stupid. i've been cheated on a couple times (ONCE ON MY BIRTHDAY WITH TWO- NOT ONE- TWO GIRLS. mind you it was not two at the same time, he got head from one girl and then another girl offered to give him head later and he was all for it. ish.)

it doesn't have anything to do with x or y chromosones. it's maturity. sometimes i feel like a magnet to shitty boys, but that's stupid. i just have no idea what a good guy is anymore. it's all up in the air. shit could be great one second, and then it could be the day after my birthday and i'm gettin a call from my beau being like, 'hey, btw. that party i ditched you for? yeah, we're over. no details, but ask so-and-so about it; they'll fill you in"

i've come to the conclusion that I have poor judgement. i dont know a good guy when i see one (exceptions to my hubby, of cooooooooooourse). But i am learning, and someday I will find someone who is as devoted, loyal, and awe-fucking-some as me.

I've never cheated on anyone in my life. But, I've been highly tempted to do so. Guys are just wired more carnally, it's as simple as that.

me and current/exbf have cheated on each other many many times, its forgivable though, men are just horny bastards

i really really like your signature a lot

No it isn't. :rolleyes:

speak for yourself, virgin.

I was explaining to my sister that I've never actually cheated on anyone.

she wanted to know how to tell, and how to find such a person.

I told her "good luck" and "she's probably fucked".

everyone I know has cheated. EVERYONE. maybe they're doing it right, and I've been doing it wrong, but I'll be damned if I trade out my morals for anyone.

the biggest problem is, it IS forgivable, but is NOT forgettable. trust goes right now the toilet.

this is not a man or woman problem. it's a people problem. on the whole, people really fucking suck. this planet should have died decades ago.

hey, I've never cheated on a gf so if your sister's ok with shit teeth and English weather, send her over.

Assuming your sister isn't my daughter, obviously.

are you of hispanic descent? if not, I'd say that yr chances are fairly grim. :(

not to defend men, because I really have no use for them, but neither gender holds a monopoly on cheating.

men have more closeted homosexual encounters, but that's just because penthouse and Howard Stern long ago convinced our puritanical redneck society that two chicks getting it on is top dollar entertainment for the whole family.

I've got a Los Lobos cassette somewhere, if that helps.

anything more.....triphop? but with, say, latin flavor?

I'm down to put in the good word. I'm sure she'd be down to give it a try.

she wants a GOOD MAN. she deserves it.

that said, you'd have to find yr way to Los Angeles. :p

God bless America. :o

i've never cheated, and as far as i know, never been cheated on. i realise i don't have control over being cheated on, but i've made a promise to myself never to cheat or be someone's mistress. i've seen what that does to people.

Forbidden fruit and all that... Having said that, we all get led astray sometimes... It's how we're brought up, and what we believe in... Anway, Satan's response is really kinky...

So it's official. I'm getting back with my wife. We're also talking about starting a new band together. My son is the happiest I think I've ever seen him, and my anxiety level is infinitely lower than it has been in ages. Of course this is just a trial period, but everything always is.

She's had a chain of losers who make me look wonderful and I've had an intense experience with a crazy arty chick who let me do things in bed I didn't even know I'd wanted to do. Nice vacation, time to wake up and work on shit - together and as individuals. I didn't see this coming at all, but here's to it. Hopefully the drama is over with.

woah dead-air, that's really great!

i hope things work out for the both of you, good luck!

you know that this is the "alwyaqs hook up with the worng women" thread, right?

be careful, dick. people never change.

Have you ever thought that all the women you know think THEY always hooked up with the wrong guy ?
cheating sux.

I have never cheated and as far as I know never been cheated upon, but I may just be lucky.

no, just naive. ;)

I'll take it!

it's all I've got too. ;)

never look a gift whore in the mouth.

Great line about Howard there Dead-Air. One question you have to ask yourself is Can You forgive your wife for the string of loosers? If you can't then I don't believe you and her will make it. It's easy to say yes cause I did too but deep down where you live can you forgiver her?

As for cheating I did. Thankfully only twice but it was without a doubt the worst guilt trip I ever had in my marriage and took quite a while to get over.

wut. her proportions has been jpegged