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!@#$%! 02.27.2008 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
you're always desperate to have the last word. even if it's lame.

go on with your bad self?


i'm not always desperate to have the last word. i may SEEM always desparate TO YOU or your minions. but there's a difference. IMO (i just barfed a little there.)

anyway. have the last word. have it. go ahead.

girlgun 02.27.2008 06:58 PM

:) :)

!@#$%! 02.27.2008 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by girlgun

:) :)




 

ithinkimissyou 02.27.2008 07:04 PM

*vomits*

m1rr0r dash 02.27.2008 07:44 PM


 



whatever happened to this guy? i thought he was pretty cool.




























...i mean the guy on the right... but come to think of it, whatever did happen to the guy on the left? i thought he was kind of cool....

floatingslowly 02.27.2008 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash
but come to think of it, whatever did happen to the guy on the left? i thought he was kind of cool....


yr pumping yr fist going woof woof woof right now, aren't you, dog?

you disgust me.

barnaclelapse 02.27.2008 11:27 PM

"All the friends I ever had are gone..."

Good song.

Anyway, I don't have any friends either.

Which makes the whole alcoholism thing a whole lot easier.

No one to bitch at me.

SpectralJulianIsNotDead 02.28.2008 12:34 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
look children, this is how it works.

first, the sorrow of many is consolation only to fools (translating spanish saying here-- mal de muchos, consuelo de tontos-- how do you say that?)

but really, life goes this way:

when you're a teenager and in your early 20s, you think your friends are like blood brothers 4evarr etc etc.

but then everyone get their girlfriend/gayfriend/wife/husband/partner & they become so occupied with relationship/family life that friends recede to the background.

now people can keep and build new friendships after becoming domesticated, but it's rarer than before. friendship takes time and work and when the majority of your energy goes elsewhere well duh.

this of course does not mean the end of your social life.

the wife and i see friends every week-- some are hers, some are mine, some are common. but they are not BLOOD BRUTHAS 4EVARRRR. it's a more quiet thing.

and really, as much as i like hanging out here, internet friends can't help you move house.

as for the "best friend" title, i've moved around so much that it's hard to keep those frienships; and then time passes and your highschool friend and you have little in common--oh yeah garden state didn't "discover"that. but anyway. friendships mutate. sometimes you're friend with someone for years and they turn into assholes and you gotta say bye. sometimes you change & everything around you changes. that's life.

now as for my unrequested advice to fénix: find a new house without rabbit shit where you can actually have people over & entertain them in a civilized manner, have dinner parties, orgies, what have you-- shit free of course.

that'll be $50. thanks.


Good points man.

phoenix 02.28.2008 04:40 AM

character guy seems logical to some people's lives, but def not others. Everyone's paths are different. you know?

I never want to have a dinner party in my life.

I've had people over for food. and things. wine sushi music alcohol drugs whathave you.

but no dinner parties. no no.

m1rr0r dash 02.28.2008 04:54 AM


 


:eek::eek::eek:

m1rr0r dash 02.28.2008 05:24 AM

for the record... i actually agree with most of what crazy cymbol guy says, i just wanted to post that.:)

Rob Instigator 02.28.2008 09:47 AM

studies have been done, repeatedly showing that most people cycle through the same set of about 100 friends/acquaintances in their entire life.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash
for the record... i actually agree with most of what crazy cymbol guy says, i just wanted to post that.:)


you mean the especially when i say i speak the holy motherfucking truth of the ages, for ever and ever, amen, right? right??? right????

--

& to avoid confusion: :D

girlgun 02.28.2008 10:33 AM

it wasn't necessarily the advice you gave (this time)... i was just cracking on the fact you're constantly giving advice and playing the role of "psychologist". i'm sorry. i must've hit a nerve, dr. freud.

✌➬ 02.28.2008 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
it wasn't necessarily the advice you gave (this time)... i was just cracking on the fact you're constantly giving advice and playing the role of "psychologist". i'm sorry. i must've hit a nerve, dr. freud.


Isn't Freud not important anymore? If so, you are just callling !@#$%! a hack. :p

girlgun 02.28.2008 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by ✌➬
Isn't Freud not important anymore? If so, you are just callling !@#$%! a hack. :p


haha yep.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 10:41 AM

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Originally Posted by phoenix
character guy seems logical to some people's lives, but def not others. Everyone's paths are different. you know?

I never want to have a dinner party in my life.

I've had people over for food. and things. wine sushi music alcohol drugs whathave you.

but no dinner parties. no no.


ha ha, come on, "dinner parties" mean just having people over for the purpose of food and drink. one of the basic pleasures of life. doesn't have to be a stuffy situation with engraved invitations or something.

anyway, best wishes whatever you do.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
it wasn't necessarily the advice you gave (this time)... i was just cracking on the fact you're constantly giving advice and playing the role of "psychologist". i'm sorry. i must've hit a nerve, dr. freud.


you just want to be that person, is all, that is all, you just want to be that person.


jeeeaaaaaalous....

girlgun 02.28.2008 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
you just want to be that person, is all, that is all, you just want to be that person.


jeeeaaaaaalous....

Err ive got the goods, but also the good sense to not regurgitate what is essentially bullshit.

Peace brotha. Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 10:51 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
Err ive got the goods, but also the good sense to not regurgitate what is essentially bullshit.

Peace brotha. Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars.


hm yeah hm yeah hm yeah

youre full of whiskey

jeeaaaaalous.

you've got the penis envies :D

girlgun 02.28.2008 10:58 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
hm yeah hm yeah hm yeah

youre full of whiskey

jeeaaaaalous.

you've got the penis envies :D

and the fact you're dealing with a female over the age of 18 must really be throwing your machismo for a loop!

You no like casey kasem? He was a great gift to psychology.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
and the fact you're dealing with a female over the age of 18 must really be throwing your machismo for a loop!

You no like casey kasem? He was a great gift to psychology.


yes yes you are so macho.

ha ha ha ha.

so macho.

who is casey kasem?

val-holla-ing 02.28.2008 11:02 AM

i'll be your friend.

girlgun 02.28.2008 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
yes yes you are so macho.

ha ha ha ha.

so macho.

who is casey kasem?

Hehe I suspected you wouldnt know after I posted since as far as I know you weren't an American child of the 80s. Look him up! Pop culture lesson of the day. He sucked, btw.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
Hehe I suspected you wouldnt know after I posted since as far as I know you weren't an American child of the 80s. Look him up! Pop culture lesson of the day. He sucked, btw.


oooooh! psychobabbles!!!!

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 11:13 AM

anyway, have the last word, have the last word-- have it!

have it. here. have it.

girlgun 02.28.2008 11:14 AM

Haha :) :)

Rob Instigator 02.28.2008 11:16 AM

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Originally Posted by ✌➬
Isn't Freud not important anymore? If so, you are just callling !@#$%! a hack. :p


no, Freud is NOT important anymore
his theories have nearly all been discounted

read up on it

Rob Instigator 02.28.2008 11:17 AM

and Casey Kasem was Robin of Batman and robin fame in the cartoons

superfriends and such

girlgun 02.28.2008 11:22 AM

rob? Will you rub some machismo on me?

floatingslowly 02.28.2008 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
He sucked, btw.


you have no idea what yr talking about.

CC was the shit.

val-holla-ing 02.28.2008 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
no, Freud is NOT important anymore
his theories have nearly all been discounted

read up on it


i've only attended my psych class twice this semester, and even iiiii knew this.

Rob Instigator 02.28.2008 11:53 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun
rob? Will you rub some machismo on me?


seeing as how William F Buckley is dead now....

val-holla-ing 02.28.2008 12:00 PM

what about mayonnaise? jeff buckley's alive. in our hearts.

themawt71 02.28.2008 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash
 




...i mean the guy on the right... but come to think of it, whatever did happen to the guy on the left? i thought he was kind of cool....



arsenio showed in a chappelle show skit and punched someone at a party because he didn't tell him that there would be good cheese at the party.

"this is some goodass cheese. why didnt you tell there would be good cheese at this party motherfucker...bop!

val-holla-ing 02.28.2008 12:36 PM

man. arsenio hall has rapist eyes. just look at how he looks at eddie murphy in "coming to america." them some rapist eyes if i ever seent a pair.

floatingslowly 02.28.2008 12:38 PM

I'm sorry, this is the "i have no friends anymore " thread and not "my hopes and dreams".

I hope this helps.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Savage Clone
Re-read for sanctimonious black-and-white presentation, thanks.


hey man sorry about yesterday.

i re-read my post today and ha!

i can only offer as an excuse that i had a bad case of conjunctivitis, had a swollen & painful eyelid, and was engaged in an IM conversation while i crankily replied yesterday afternoon.

because after rereading what i wrote i can see how it's possible to interpret that you can't keep your best friends from teenage/early 20's. and yeah i didn't mean that, but i didn't have to read malice into your reply either. i was just generally irritated and my attention was scattered.

i thought i'd post you this apology on a PM to avoid bitchy interferences but i figured meh (i was gonna post this earlier in fact but got distracted).

anyway. sorry for the assholity. i hope you accept.

!@#$%! 02.28.2008 02:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Nefeli
i hope in my next dream all my friends will be there and we will hold hands and dance around a huge chocolate cake that afterwards we will eat.


ha ha sounds like a yummy dream

Everyneurotic 02.28.2008 02:57 PM

i've never had bff and what little friends i have, i think i'm too social and make friends pretty easily.

i don't think i'm a creep for not having to see 100 morons a week and pretend like they are my family. i think i'm doing ok, i'd love to meet new people if they are interesting and easy going, why not, but it's not something i'm stressed about.


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