How about a diver with either a finger or a dildo anally.

this may sound bizarre to you, but if this is not psychological (it could be, who knows), you might have low testosterone. men and women have both estrogen and testosterone, and women with low testosterone have problems getting off-- i'm not joking.

why not go to a doctor & get checked? they could do a blood test to check your various hormone levels, blood sugar, liver & kidney function, etc.

we're highly unqualified to do this...

too true on the severe lack of qualifications for SYG to discuss this!


any doctors in the house?

every woman should have a gynecologist they trust. just saying.

i think i have some extra testosterone.....

exactly. its like dropping acid, you can't spend the first 45 minutes anticipating, desiring for and even imagining the trip, you just have to let shit hit you, and BAM .

in a related note I have only had a similar problem once, but it was not quite a feelingless orgasm as much as I honestly and openly was taking so damned long after over an hour I was desperately thinking about faking it? But how do you fake it as a guy? There is no way.. so I just balked, and took the shit or get off the pot attitude about it, so I had to just split.

I am surprised that amerikangod is the only dude who jumped in this thread, as it got ALL our regular ladies attention.. ;)

yeah, i saw those pics of you with a huge tache

ha!

but yes, levels vary. too high and you can always make a living as a drag performer, but too low and life is just no fun.

i hope you're not serious.

i kind of know you're joking, but if you're not... wow.

no
but i gotta blame something

Oh...I'm not serious....I can't be serious in a topic which I really have no knowledge about.

good. phew!

see? knoxxy is HILARIOUS!

I love the dry wit.

It feels so good that so many came to try to help. Thank you guys!!! When does the orgy begin?

*^%#, actually I'm fully aware of the possibility to have low testosterone, and have been trying to use cacao and maca to try to balance that out, (maca is a peruvian herb known to balance the endocrine system), but it might be too soon to tell.

I guess I'll see my doctor about it. I'm bummed that this wasnt more common of a problem, but I had to give it a shot. I've tried to tell myself that it just wasnt all that important "in life", but guess what? I've decided it is. I want to get fucked and feel good.

If anything good is to come out of this thread, I will see a doctor, you will all find a/your partners and have such exploding tripped out orgasms that you soak the room wet.

I think so.It seems it is always changing, the quality or whatever.

I can't believe after all these years, some people (ahem, Rob) still think that alteredcourse is a guy).

I got some great advice today!

Amerikangod, are you down for giving me at least 20 mins of body pleasure and wrapping me in sexual energy before laying the meat into the grinder ? (sorry, sticking to the first image that came to mind. please dont go.)

I've decided to vacation myself northwards and have a sexual vision quest. As I've been coached by a trusted comrade, "Imma hit that."

This happened to me for the first time last night and was slightly worrisome:(.

This morning I was redeemed, though. Probably drug-related or something.

Weed or being the catcher after a long streak of pitching helps for me.

Diphenydramine(benadryl, Unisom gelcaps) is also said to increase orgasm at standard anti-histamine or sleep doses.

Good luck. An orgasm is not something to go without.

Noooo cant do weed. Issues. Thanks though!

Hmmm...I'll give them diphenydramine a shot though. I love chemicals.

An orgasm really isnt something to go without, is it ? I feel like I have to make up for years of build up.

i'm waiting for the invitation. come on guys