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Everyneurotic 02.10.2008 01:20 PM

having been in bands and quitting, it's worst if everybody is present.

!@#$%! 02.10.2008 01:21 PM

yeah but she's afraid of susanita. i'd at least bring a police escort. :D

Everyneurotic 02.10.2008 01:23 PM

point taken.

bring a friend, besides the band witness.

contrelefuckingsexisme 02.10.2008 07:51 PM

guys, i might send an e-mail along with some pictures she asked me for...
what do you think of that?
it'll basically say how i feel and that if she want, she can call the whole band for a reunion...or call me if she wants to speak to me about it. face to face.
do you think the e-mail idea sucks?


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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
point taken.

bring a friend, besides the band witness.


Everyneurotic 02.10.2008 11:55 PM

i'd say go with the email and definitely mention that if she wants to see you or call you to explain, that she should do it.

contrelefuckingsexisme 02.12.2008 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
i'd say go with the email and definitely mention that if she wants to see you or call you to explain, that she should do it.


OK. she sent me text messages during the day yesterday to ask me if i could rehearse today. my cell phone was turned off so as soon as i turned it on, the messages started coming up. i sent her a message i couldn't but that i wanted to talk to her about my future in the project.
so i call her on the cell phone. the answering machine.
so i call her to her house. she picks up.
the rest is history.
she yet gave me another reason to want to quit.

i feel bad about the way she treated me, taking into account i spoke in a completely normal volume of voice, and gave my most acceptable reason to want to leave...
i'm completely happy with my decision anyway.

i'll have a talk with the rest of the band tomorrow...
i'll let you know how it all goes.

!@#$%! 02.12.2008 01:02 AM

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Originally Posted by contrelefuckingsexisme
OK. she sent me text messages during the day yesterday to ask me if i could rehearse today. my cell phone was turned off so as soon as i turned it on, the messages started coming up. i sent her a message i couldn't but that i wanted to talk to her about my future in the project.
so i call her on the cell phone. the answering machine.
so i call her to her house. she picks up.
the rest is history.
she yet gave me another reason to want to quit.

i feel bad about the way she treated me, taking into account i spoke in a completely normal volume of voice, and gave my most acceptable reason to want to leave...
i'm completely happy with my decision anyway.

i'll have a talk with the rest of the band tomorrow...
i'll let you know how it all goes.


ha ha ha

was she an ass?

well good riddance!

time to celebrate

contrelefuckingsexisme 02.12.2008 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
ha ha ha

was she an ass?

well good riddance!

time to celebrate


she was mean
i'm expecting her to be meaner tomorrow.

Everyneurotic 02.12.2008 01:05 AM

in my opinion, i think you already quit and have no further obligation with her or the band.

!@#$%! 02.12.2008 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by contrelefuckingsexisme
she was mean
i'm expecting her to be meaner tomorrow.

you seeing her again? why????

oh the rest of the band?

just email them-- avoid the drama

OR...

carry a hidden recorder

tape whatever she's saying

sample it into your next recording

remix it w/ sumo's "la rubia tarada"

etc.

contrelefuckingsexisme 02.12.2008 01:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by !@#$%!
you seeing her again? why????

oh the rest of the band?

just email them-- avoid the drama

OR...

carry a hidden recorder

tape whatever she's saying

sample it into your next recording

remix it w/ sumo's "la rubia tarada"

etc.


the thing is i kind of want to show up and tell them in the face. if they want to be assholes, they can be assholes, but i'll most likely walk away.
i'd call them or send them an e-mail but then i'd be the asshole that never had the guts to show up and talk about it like it was something official or something.
i even tried calling one of the guys...he didn't pick up.

contrelefuckingsexisme 02.12.2008 01:16 AM

i agree. however, she thinks i owe her my life and musical talent.
i swear i don't know wether to go out and kill people or just kill myself and make everyone's lives a lot easier.
Quote:

Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
in my opinion, i think you already quit and have no further obligation with her or the band.


!@#$%! 02.12.2008 01:18 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by contrelefuckingsexisme
the thing is i kind of want to show up and tell them in the face. if they want to be assholes, they can be assholes, but i'll most likely walk away.
i'd call them or send them an e-mail but then i'd be the asshole that never had the guts to show up and talk about it like it was something official or something.
i even tried calling one of the guys...he didn't pick up.


GRABA! GRABA!!!

:D

Everyneurotic 02.12.2008 01:19 AM

no way, you should stay alive and make their lives more miserable.

people suck.

contrelefuckingsexisme 02.12.2008 01:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
no way, you should stay alive and make their lives more miserable.

people suck.


i'm about to cry.
i feel so .... pushed up.
AGAIN.
i thought it was going to end by the time i said the words: "I don't want to play in this project anymore..."
but now i have this pressure to go and tell the others. and prolly stand her mean attitude.

!@#$%! 02.12.2008 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by contrelefuckingsexisme
i'm about to cry.
i feel so .... pushed up.
AGAIN.


nooo nooo

come on

have a laugh

Everyneurotic 02.12.2008 01:26 AM

get rid of all the unnecessary burdens in your life. it sucks to be so caught up in shit all the time.

and start caring about what you want and what you like instead of what other people want or like or think.

!@#$%! 02.12.2008 01:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
get rid of all the unnecessary burdens in your life. it sucks to be so caught up in shit all the time.

and start caring about what you want and what you like instead of what other people want or like or think.


^^^^^^^SIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII

contrelefuckingsexisme 02.12.2008 01:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Everyneurotic
get rid of all the unnecessary burdens in your life. it sucks to be so caught up in shit all the time.

and start caring about what you want and what you like instead of what other people want or like or think.


i really should.
but all i wanted was to be understood, as i'm not leaving because i feel like it.
i have my reasons.

!@#$%! 02.12.2008 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by contrelefuckingsexisme
i really should.
but all i wanted was to be understood, as i'm not leaving because i feel like it.
i have my reasons.


so you want to let them know after all that you are leaving because of that insufferable diva bitch?

i wish i could be there tomorrow as your bodyguard ha ha.

anyway, whatever you do, you have our support.


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