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HaydenAsche 11.01.2006 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by fishmonkey
best of luck to you mate, its takes a lot to come out anywhere, nevermind just a forum, my advice now is to tell your best mate and you'll be amazed at how everyone is actually ok about it. fair play to you, i'm well proud of you man.

i'm gay too, its great fun really!!
PM me anytime you want an ould chum to slag off all the straights with!


So, hold on, how many queers do we have on the boards now?
Me
Fishmonkey
Alex's Trip
Porkmarras
static-harmony
Krastian

Hooray.

Oh, and you must spread the gay around before giving it to Glice again.

Trasher02 11.01.2006 12:40 PM

I just noticed there are a lot of queers one the board...
Who's next?

HaydenAsche 11.01.2006 12:43 PM

Hopefully Clone. Wouldn't that be wonderful?

Trasher02 11.01.2006 12:55 PM

Rob Instigator is next. He just pretends he likes negro asses.

HaydenAsche 11.01.2006 01:04 PM

Tell him to join anyways. It's not as if we actually discuss music.

Is he attractive?

Rob Instigator 11.01.2006 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip
I know it isn't a big deal here, but it is a big deal to me.

I'm gay

I suppose I've known for a while, but I never wanted to accept it. Not that I had a problem with gays, I just couldn't really come to terms with being one. I couldn't deal with the idea of what my friends and family would do, so I just rejected the idea that I was gay, and figured that my attraction to guys was just a phase. But I'm far beyond the possibility of a phase. I've had these feelings for 3 years now and I'm finally starting to accept it.

I know it is cheesy and stupid to come out on a forum, but I got to start somewhere.


hey my man. To "Know Thyself" is the ultimate goal in life and you have taken that step to truly knowing yourself.

be strong in yrself when the assholes (and oh boy are they out there) try to give you grief.

SONIC LIFE!

Rob Instigator 11.01.2006 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by umjammer atomsk


 

Er, something like that. :)

I recently found out I have Asperger's Syndrome. So, um, I don't know.


don't let anyone fuck wit you.

!@#$%! 11.01.2006 01:18 PM

alright, i'm a bit late to join, but congratulations! i mean to find out who you are-- very important. living a fake life, on the other hand, is a fucking disgrace. be strong, be smart, and by all means do not become a miserable bastard.

static-harmony 11.01.2006 01:19 PM

Don't move to West Hollywood, that is such a cliche.

!@#$%! 11.01.2006 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom
umjammer- join the club. i've got most of the signs, and my brother was diagnosed when he was four or five.


ha ha, this is going to sound out of place in a coming out thread, but you just became hotter in my mind. i loooove peculiar, excentric, and unusual women. :D

(normal=boooooring!)

static-harmony 11.01.2006 01:41 PM

Eccentric people are the best.

Danny Himself 11.01.2006 01:50 PM

Yeah man. Congrats on coming to terms with it, and unleashing your secret on these boardmembers.

Two of my uncles are gay. Yup. One is a queen and one isn't.

Rob Instigator 11.01.2006 02:00 PM

i wish I was gay. gay guys get invited to all the cool parties.

!@#$%! 11.01.2006 02:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
i wish I was gay. gay guys get invited to all the cool parties.


nothing you can't fix by reading quentin crisp's "how to have a lifestyle" ;)

Alex's Trip 11.01.2006 06:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
i wish I was gay. gay guys get invited to all the cool parties.

No they don't. :(

Although, I guess no one knows I am...

static-harmony 11.01.2006 06:37 PM

Don't worry at first it will by like a big fuzzy madonna cloud, that eventually it will get old and dio out.

Everyneurotic 11.01.2006 07:39 PM

homosaywhat?

Alex's Trip 11.01.2006 07:40 PM

Huh?

krastian 11.02.2006 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by porkmarras
Don't forget that it is only your sexuality and not the whole of you personality.

Unfortunately for some it is......that's the worst. It's like "Damn, are you a real person other than yr gayness?" I can't think of a worse turnoff.

Cantankerous 11.02.2006 12:45 AM

fabulouth.

static-harmony 11.02.2006 01:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by krastian
Unfortunately for some it is......that's the worst. It's like "Damn, are you a real person other than yr gayness?" I can't think of a worse turnoff.


Yeah i hate that shit, thank god it hasn't happened to me yet.

Alex's Trip 11.02.2006 01:39 AM

I don't think that'll happen to me any time soon. And by that I mean ever.

krastian 11.02.2006 01:42 AM

Fuck a' stereotype.

static-harmony 11.02.2006 01:53 AM

I want to tell my parents, but I can't. Which fucking sucks cause I feel ready to tell my family.

Alex's Trip 11.02.2006 09:45 AM

Thanks Kegmama. (Don't go telling my Mom!)

I'll read those later.

cryptowonderdruginvogue 11.02.2006 03:55 PM

a..are...are you sure?
do you want to reconsider that??!?




no?
well, congratulations

cryptowonderdruginvogue 11.02.2006 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trasher02
Rob Instigator is next. He just pretends he likes negro asses.


nah, homeboys got himself a honey
ive met both of em before

Cantankerous 11.02.2006 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by cryptowonderdruginvogue
nah, homeboys got himself a honey
ive met both of em before

yeah but have you seen those people on oprah who are secretly gay with like a wife and kids?
ROB.

porkmarras 11.02.2006 04:48 PM

And i thought that black adoption brought some good things to Minnesota.....................

Alex's Trip 11.02.2006 07:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cantankerous
yeah but have you seen those people on oprah who are secretly gay with like a wife and kids?
ROB.

hehe...

porkmarras 11.02.2006 07:29 PM

So,what did you do as an out-gay in the past few days?

Sheriff Rhys Chatham 11.02.2006 07:37 PM

good for you man.

Alex's Trip 11.02.2006 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by porkmarras
So,what did you do as an out-gay in the past few days?

Contracted AIDS.

Alex's Trip 11.02.2006 08:32 PM

Fuck.

I don't really like my parents. I don't mean in an angsty way, I just have been indifferent to them, not wanting to be around them or the rest of my family. And I feel bad for that. My dad was talking to me about how I should be doing more because they don't feel like they are appreciated by me (even though they don't really do a whole lot for me). He said "we feel like you don't like us" and he paused as if he wanted some reassurance, and I couldn't give it to him. I feel terrible. It was a good chance to tell him too. But I couldn't do it.

!@#$%! 11.02.2006 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip
Fuck.

I don't really like my parents. I don't mean in an angsty way, I just have been indifferent to them, not wanting to be around them or the rest of my family. And I feel bad for that. My dad was talking to me about how I should be doing more because they don't feel like they are appreciated by me (even though they don't really do a whole lot for me). He said "we feel like you don't like us" and he paused as if he wanted some reassurance, and I couldn't give it to him. I feel terrible. It was a good chance to tell him too. But I couldn't do it.


tell them they're ok but that you're a teenager and it's your biological and psychological imperative to separate yourself from them, and that if you don't achieve that task within a reasonable schedule you'll become a mentally malformed creep.

Bunbury 11.02.2006 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip
It was a good chance to tell him too. But I couldn't do it.


you could always take the pASSive rOUTe.

AKA

-leave sears catologs around your room opened to the mens under wear SEXtion.

-dont clear your internet history after cruising male porn.
-dont dELLEte those 1minute and 45 second bear amature porn vid's on your HARD drive
-etc.

HaydenAsche 11.03.2006 10:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bunbury
you could always take the pASSive rOUTe.

AKA

-leave sears catologs around your room opened to the mens under wear SEXtion.

-dont clear your interNET history after cruising male porn.
-dont dELLEte those 1minute and 45 seCONd bear amature porn vid's on your HARD drive
-etc.


Best post in the thread.

Alex's Trip 11.03.2006 06:15 PM

I actually thought about that, but that would just be weird.

static-harmony 11.03.2006 06:40 PM

Don't do that, do a cliche thing, say it during thanksgiving when everyone is fighting, that will calm them down. That's what i intend on doing.

Alex's Trip 11.03.2006 11:20 PM

You just assume that everyone will be fighting?


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