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radarmaker 01.07.2010 01:58 PM

The problem with cutting down is that you just spend the whole time looking forward to the precious next one, which then tastes/feels all the nicer because you've waited for it.

ni'k 01.07.2010 01:59 PM

cutting down has never worked for me, always seemed like a cop out. that drawing idea is excellent. i think i will try to do something similar with gtr.

knox 01.07.2010 02:04 PM

the doctor advised this woman i know to cut down and never quit cold turkey.
because he said there could be severe side effects to just quitting.
and she did have migraines and faint.
so he gave her these pills and she cut down and a month later she quit, it has been 6 months, and she keeps preaching to me about these pills.
they must be antidepressants or something, to help with the withdrawal depression.

Rob Instigator 01.07.2010 02:06 PM

if you are a heavy smoker, the crash from lack of nicotine will definitely give you fucking MONSTER headaches, and therefore it is best to slow down for a few weeks to get your body used to lesser nicotine before going full out cold turkey.

I smoked for 10 yeatrs, quit for 4, started smoking clove cigs during my divorce, and quit those after a year. I now smoke no cigs, but enjoy 2-3 cigars a week.

the feeling of not being winded, of full lung capacity, of being able to swim for an hour without heaving, is a wonderful feeling.

wellcharge 01.07.2010 02:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
but enjoy 2-3 cigars a week.




i think replacing cigs with cigars could the trick, you'll still get nicotine but you can't smoke as much and won't inhale

knox 01.07.2010 02:15 PM

I tried to do it I was smoking cigars all the time and smelling bad.

EVOLghost 01.07.2010 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wellcharge
just quit and don't make a big deal out of, tonnes of fat.lazy and semi-retarded morons have quit smoking, do you really want to fail at something than any old jackass can do?



greatest motivation post to quit smoking.

wellcharge 01.07.2010 02:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by knox
I tried to do it I was smoking cigars all the time and smelling bad.


if you smoke premium stuff you'll smell incredible and won't have money for cigarettes

knox 01.07.2010 02:26 PM

well, i dont even know what premium stuff is i was just craving.

EVOLghost 01.07.2010 02:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rob Instigator
I quit smoking cigs cold turkey. It took 6-8 weeks before all the twitchy nerves and the pangs of want went away fully. I used any time I normally had used to smoke to instead draw. I would draw out of nervous energy and eventually would forget why I was drawing and not notice the jangly nerves anymore.
It helps if you take something up to pass the time.
the hardest are those times when you used to ritually smoke, after a meal for example, or in the car on the way home from work, or after sex.

habits are programmed into our brains by ourselves.

There is a good bit of study done that shows a ratio betwene how often you do something and how long it takes for NOT doing t to feel normal.

The ratio is between 1 to 12 and 1 to 16.
a daily habit takes 12 to 16 days of not doing it to "break" the need/desire.
a weekly habit takes 12-16 weeks to break. something like that
I have talked to many ex smokers and they all say that if you can get through 3 weeks without a cig, you are 3/4 of the way to quitting for good.



!!!!!!


yeah I heard it's harder to quit when you have a routine in. My routine is very simple when it comes to cigs. I mainly smoke after a bowl/blunt/joint or when I'm getti'n drunk or some shiz...

Other than that...I can go without smoking for a while.

floatingslowly 01.07.2010 02:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wellcharge
i can quit, i don't want to, but i'd imagine being a week with no cig i'm not physically addicted


I was wrong when I assumed that you were a facist non-smoker.

it turns out that yr just stupid.

cue: pity

Inhuman 01.07.2010 02:39 PM

Three cheers for virtual cock measuring sessions. No more douche-callings y'all. Peace and love

 

floatingslowly 01.07.2010 02:47 PM

pointing out poor and circuitous logic has nothing to do with the (gigantic) size of my cock.

tesla69 01.07.2010 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by akprodr
Of course, it IS a choice. When you want a smoke (or fix or hit or whatever), you have a choice--give in and do it or stand firm and resist. It comes down to willpower--can you resist what your body/mind is telling you it wants.


its easy to say that, but when EVERY FUCKING CELL IN YOUR BODY IS SCREAMING and you know the anxiety could so easily be calmed by just a stupid smoke...sometimes our own biochemistry is our enemy.

I wish I knew more about dopamine issues. I do know the electric cigarette provides a nicotine release with flavor - who knows if it is really safe - but at least you aren't bringing all that carbon and chemicals and holding it in your lungs.

Inhuman 01.07.2010 02:57 PM

Well nobody's a douche, it's just a misunderstanding of logic.

Wellcharge - I think what floatingslowly means is that since YOU never quit yourself you don't personally know how difficult it is for n'ik to quit. Every brain is different... and many people would continue if they had a cigarette shoved down their throat. For example, the first time I did a shotgun blast with a buddy, the joint escaped my teeth, and blew straight down his throat and got stuck. He had to cough it out and apparently it was nasty. He's probably the biggest pot smoker / dealer I know now :p

akprodr 01.07.2010 03:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by knox

they must be antidepressants or something, to help with the withdrawal depression.



Yeah, I think Zyban is a help-quit-smoking pill. It is also an anti-depressant under another name. Wellbutrin?

akprodr 01.07.2010 03:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by tesla69
its easy to say that, but when EVERY FUCKING CELL IN YOUR BODY IS SCREAMING and you know the anxiety could so easily be calmed by just a stupid smoke...sometimes our own biochemistry is our enemy.


I think you just restated what I said. You want another word in place of choice? How about battle? You are at war with yourself. But the only person that is going to keep you from doing _x_ is you. It is ultimately your choice to do _x_ or _y_.

Luckily, I've never been strongly addicted. Smoked a good deal of cigarettes this summer. Was fairly hooked on pot a while back Pot was somewhat easier since I need to really go out of my way to get it while you can get cigs just about anywhere. But yeah, over the summer, I said "This is my last pack" about 50 times.

wellcharge 01.07.2010 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Inhuman
Well nobody's a douche, it's just a misunderstanding of logic.

Wellcharge - I think what floatingslowly means is that since YOU never quit yourself you don't personally know how difficult it is for n'ik to quit.


i have quit before but that's not what he means anyways, he already said what he meant: I was wrong when I assumed that you were a facist non-smoker. it turns out that yr just stupid.

EVOLghost 01.07.2010 03:40 PM

ni'k just switch to pot.

ni'k 01.07.2010 03:56 PM

i had some very bad cannabis psychosis ha so i'm off it for good. anyway i'm going to go off the cigs tonight, wish me luck motherfucks, if i get stressed out and crave i will instead take out my frustration by being a dick on this message board! yay! so i am launching this new abstinence with some fresh ferraro jams and green tea. i am going to use the ferraro jams to meditate on the damaged chakra channels that access zebra light crystals levitating in the boner windmill angels of spherical peacock anal bead neptune gem yoga concioussness so i can reach enlightenment as to the root cause of my addiction and how i can be cured.

Keeping It Simple 01.07.2010 03:56 PM

I caught my mum smoking my dad's pipe once. She ran out of cigarettes and just had to smoke something to satiate her desire.

Glice 01.07.2010 04:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ni'k
i had some very bad cannabis psychosis ha so i'm off it for good. anyway i'm going to go off the cigs tonight, wish me luck motherfucks, if i get stressed out and crave i will instead take out my frustration by being a dick on this message board! yay! so i am launching this new abstinence with some fresh ferraro jams and green tea. i am going to use the ferraro jams to meditate on the damaged chakra channels that access zebra light crystals levitating in the boner windmill angels of spherical peacock anal bead neptune gem yoga concioussness so i can reach enlightenment as to the root cause of my addiction and how i can be cured.


Just have a wank son.

Glice 01.07.2010 04:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Keeping It Simple
I caught my mum smoking my dad's pipe once. She ran out of cigarettes and just had to smoke something to satiate her desire.


*sniggers*

ilduclo 01.07.2010 04:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ni'k
4 years... what was it like after 6 months? How long did you smoke for before you quit?

\

after 6 months it was a lot better, but still would get real cravings from time to time (couple 3 times a week, maybe?)


I smoked from 15 to 35-- 20 years! I used the patch and it worked for me (barely)

Crumb's Crunchy Delights 01.07.2010 04:37 PM

im not allowed to smoke in my room anyways

it wouldnt be worth the pain

floatingslowly 01.07.2010 06:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wellcharge
i have quit before but that's not what he means anyways, he already said what he meant: I was wrong when I assumed that you were a facist non-smoker. it turns out that yr just stupid.

no, if you weren't so dense (and still buttsore about gypsies) you would see that that is exactly what I'm saying.

along with yr failure in logic (retards->successfully quit. retards->can't successfully quit) you still smoke yrself!

but that's only because you don't want to and NOT because you can't.

taste the full-flavored hypocrisy!

wellcharge 01.07.2010 06:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by floatingslowly
no, if you weren't so dense (and still buttsore about gypsies) you would see that that is exactly what I'm saying.

along with yr failure in logic (retards->successfully quit. retards->can't successfully quit) you still smoke yrself!



fat.lazy and semi-retarded morons have quit smoking

i said that fat,lazy and semi retarded people quit, i didn't say that retards do, although it's likely happened. and i didn't imply that not quitting makes you a retard, i said it means you are unsuccessful at something retards have probably done, i never implied that makes you a retard yrself, otherwise everyone who hasn't made it to the special olympics would be a retard.

continuing to smoke because you want to smoke, is very different than wanting to stop yet continuing. i definitely did not call nik a retard, or imply that he was incapable of stopping, rather i implied that pretty much anyone is capable of stopping. no hypocrisy is present, except on yr end.

taste the full flavoured hypocrisy

if you promise to cut yr fingers off i would be willing to officially quit smoking long term? i need the fingers in the mail within a month however for proof

Toilet & Bowels 01.07.2010 06:50 PM

i quit on christmas day, it's going ok, i get tempted very at work though, whenever something shit happens i just want to nip out for a fag and some solace, that's what i need to find a replacement for.
my chest feels much cleaner for quitting, and my smoker cough has gone.

floatingslowly 01.07.2010 07:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wellcharge
if you promise to cut yr fingers off i would be willing to officially quit smoking long term? i need the fingers in the mail within a month however for proof


why would I cut off my fingers to save you?

just because I caught you giving out net-advice without a permit does not mean that I care what you do with yr life.

in fact, I want to you keep smoking!
:)

demonrail666 01.07.2010 07:18 PM

in sheer desperation i did once try to make a roll up out of the contents of a tea bag.

Trasher02 01.07.2010 07:23 PM

Ugh, the idea of quitting alone makes me cringe! My advice is to start chewing gum every time you want a cig. It worked for my grandfather and he hasn't smoked in over 30 years. Anyways, good luck ni'k!

knox 01.07.2010 07:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Keeping It Simple
I caught my mum smoking my dad's pipe once. .


that explains a lot

knox 01.07.2010 07:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wellcharge
fat.lazy and semi-retarded morons have quit smoking

i said that fat,lazy and semi retarded people quit, i didn't say that retards do, although it's likely happened. and i didn't imply that not quitting makes you a retard, i said it means you are unsuccessful at something retards have probably done, i never implied that makes you a retard yrself, otherwise everyone who hasn't made it to the special olympics would be a retard.

continuing to smoke because you want to smoke, is very different than wanting to stop yet continuing. i definitely did not call nik a retard, or imply that he was incapable of stopping, rather i implied that pretty much anyone is capable of stopping. no hypocrisy is present, except on yr end.

taste the full flavoured hypocrisy

if you promise to cut yr fingers off i would be willing to officially quit smoking long term? i need the fingers in the mail within a month however for proof


not trying to sound like dad but
whoever says i quit when i want
is still in denial


haha and the teabag
who hasnt

phoenix 01.07.2010 11:03 PM

i've never been a smoker long enough to become addicted. Both parents smoked constantly through my childhood in the house though, and i guess that may be the reason i rarely do get a real craving for it.

I'd never consider becoming a regular smoker.. There are far more fun addictions to have. Sometimes the smell can be comforting, but i think again that is a childhood thing.

I do however, well have in the past, had issues with pain killers. They are awful to try and remove from yr life. So i can somewhat sympathise..

I think honestly for me the only way was to remove all my bad habbits at once, at least while i was getting over it. I stopped drinking, no weed, and didn't take anything that came in pill form. I also made a real effort to eat very healthy and get more exercise. I'm not sure why that worked the best for me.. Whether having more things to think about took the focus off a little, or removing the ridiculous amount of downers from my system gave me a better point of view from which to tackle moments of weakness..

pbradley 01.07.2010 11:23 PM

I smoked to the point that I started to want another cigarette, which frightened me from smoking anymore cigarettes.

Still have my pipe, though. An essential accessory to the ostentatious philosophile.

alteredcourse 01.08.2010 01:14 AM

After cutting down first, I would still hold in my mind the persistence of how much I really do love to smoke. I love to inhale, I love to take a break from whatever I'm doing, I love summer nights on the deck alone in silence with a cigarette, I love different kinds of smokes. That's what would come up every few minutes or so when I'd remember: time for a smoke.

But after about 4-6 months (I have a broken hippocampus), that psychological attachment stopped sitting at the forefront of my mind, and 2 years later (for the past year though actually) I can honestly say that I still agree with all those statements but in a faraway, unattached, unimportant way. Having a cigar once in a while is enough for me, I just dont care that much anymore. And being so removed from it makes me feel relief that at least THAT dependency/barrier doesnt exist - life gives you enough as it is, without your control involved.

So ultimately it's about getting over the physical addiction, and yeah I'm not surprised to hear that anti-depressants are perscribed to quit smoking - it's tightly linked to dopamine. Maybe try taking some amino acids and herbs linked to supporting dopamine production in a gentle non-pharmaceutical way. I know that the amino acid L-Tyrosine is what's used to make dopamine, and you can buy that in a store.

pbradley 01.08.2010 01:50 AM

Alteredcourse, indeed. Ever consider studying medicine? You know, if you aren't already.

atsonicpark 01.08.2010 07:08 AM

I am currently dating a smoker. She's sexy.

I smoke like two or three cigarettes a week. Sometimes I just crave that smooth nicotine glow. I can see why people would want that in their life -- but personally, cigarettes just seem like such a cheap thrill. I'm more for big thrills.

So, what am I trying to say?

Shoot paint thinner in your dick instead.

Unless you're a girl.

Oh, and perhaps you should just quit, and if possible, overdose on ambien for like 2 weeks and then you will have slept through all the shitty side effects.

chrome noise tape 01.08.2010 07:37 AM

i quit smoking three years ago , but since last month i start a daily habit ( i don't know why ) of one cig. after lunch with the coffee...that's it , one per day...feels good but damn! i broke my smoke abstinence of 3 years.

radarmaker 01.08.2010 07:40 AM

42.5 hours clean.


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