and therefore untrustworthy

Partly, yes.

I'd like gay-dating sites to work for me, so I could order men online without having to be in the same room with so many males who fart and take their shirts off all the time. The smell of so many masculine bodies is unbearable.

or, he's an exhibitionist, but doesn't want to meet the people who look at him (self esteem issues maybe)

you can be thoughtful and shallow at the same time, i am, for example.

really? i imagined you are trying to do bad things

not at all

Exhibitionists with way too low self-esteem, maybe. It sickens me to an extent you can't possibly imagine how much of this 'hey look at me! I don't make any sense whatsover, but I am a geniune bullshit sort of guy' thing' I silently put up with. Having issues about yourself I can take, but when it becomes everything you have to offer, well, I'd rather go for a life of no vice, or rather, two adults who know what they want and get it when the occasion arises, and everything feels in the right place. We're talking about people my age or older, not teenagers.