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don't fight it, just do it, it isn't anyones business, good on you

at least you know where it's at.

YR GAY OH DEAR GOD NO!

hehe just kidding, very brave of you to tell us I probably wouldn't.
Though It doesn't change my vision of you.

Good night and good luck.

Well Alex, don't worry it won't be a big deal afterward once you accept it. I did go through that phase in High School, but I finally came to the conclusion I was gay.

Whoever said that this forum produces more gays than a Madonna Concert is so damn right.

Best thing is not to turn into a big deal .Don't forget that it is only your sexuality and not the whole of you personality.Being gay is no more special than being straight.

I have to agree with porky on what he just said^^^

congratulations on coming out. when will you tell your family friends do you think?

That will be hard to tell family members, I haven't done that yet, cause I am still not dependable and do need their support.It is hard to tell family members.

The most important thing is not to make a grandiose statement of it,otherwise you'll end up distorting an issue that is simplier(or should be simplified more often) than you think.My mum,my sister and my brothers always told me:'Great,you're gay.Do you want a red carpet to walk on now?We love you the way you are no matter what your sexuality is'.Just make sure that you you are relaxed about the whole thing and things will turn out nicely.

My parents are catholics, and somewhat conservatives. I don't think I can't tell them ever.

Yeah some parents can go a little crazy.

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Originally Posted by Nefeli

from all gay people i know, i never talk or ask about gay issues-stories with them, so dont know many reaction stories.
my closest people, well one's mother found it out from some letters. other one's they never found out.
but have heard of parents taking their kid to shrink etc. and of one boy's best friend bursting to tears when he was announced that. jeez.

That's exactly the sort of thing that Alex should try to avoid.Let's not forget that some people are not pro or against homosexuality but they are totally like:'What is that?'.

I'm glad I live in a major city, because there are so many outlets, unlike small towns where they could ask those types of questions.

good luck :) did you tell your parents?

Wear a condom. Don't become a Queen. Congratulations. Let's never mention your sickness again.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Glice again.

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Originally Posted by Nefeli

oh sorry. alex's age was asking.

15.

Thanks, guys for the support.

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

I know it isn't a big deal here, but it is a big deal to me.

I'm gay

I suppose I've known for a while, but I never wanted to accept it. Not that I had a problem with gays, I just couldn't really come to terms with being one. I couldn't deal with the idea of what my friends and family would do, so I just rejected the idea that I was gay, and figured that my attraction to guys was just a phase. But I'm far beyond the possibility of a phase. I've had these feelings for 3 years now and I'm finally starting to accept it.

I know it is cheesy and stupid to come out on a forum, but I got to start somewhere.

best of luck to you mate, its takes a lot to come out anywhere, nevermind just a forum, my advice now is to tell your best mate and you'll be amazed at how everyone is actually ok about it. fair play to you, i'm well proud of you man.

i'm gay too, its great fun really!!
PM me anytime you want an ould chum to slag off all the straights with!