usually such events occur during the dying phase of a relationship-- sort of like a wake-up call.

my pattern used to be 6 months of honeymoon insanity, 6 months plateau, 6 months to break up. later as things went past that length of time the temptations were stronger. though it's happened as soon as 6 months into catastrophic relationships.

anyway, i don't recommend people follow my example or anything. it's just my contribution to the board's frequent confessional threads and in these matters i'm not embarrassed of telling it like it was because i'm not "outing" anyone or their private information.

nope

Nope, I've never cheated, but I've had plenty of offers, especially in the 5 years I've been dating my current girlfriend. Why wouldn't I do it? Sex isn't that important to me, first of all. I like a good blowjob, but my girlfriend's great at that! Plus, who else would stick their fingers in my ass? Also, my girlfriend talks dirty to me, and the specific phrases she uses.. no one else could use some of those phrases.. you know? She's so good at it. Oh, and I love her.

I have been cheated on. I dated a girl for 9 months and I wouldn't fuck her and she gave this dude who was 4 years older a handjob and expected him to fuck her but he never did. And then she put me down and said I was this awful person for months and then he told me she cheated with him, which she'd never tell me, so I told everyone and everyone thinks she's the most worthless person ever. Ah high school.

But, no... I'd never cheat. I'd just break up with my girlfriend if I felt the urge to cheat.

I will say I'm friends with a total scumbag who has cheated on his girlfriend of 4 years with 7 women. He has fucked 42 chicks altogether, and he always brags about it.

And.. actually.. come to think of it.. almost every dude I know has cheated on his long term girlfriend at least once... not me though. Fuck it. I'll watch porn.

that's how i feel. even when i was dating my last ex, who was a thousand miles away, i still wouldn't have cheated on her. people would always say stuff like well you know what they say about girls in different area codes. i just have too much respect for the other person to cheat on them.

Oh.. Hey pauly, if you're reading this.. I should just PM this but fuck it.. that LARGE MOUND shit is amazing!

My current boyfriend and I have known one another for nearly 10 months and have been a couple for 8 months. When him and I met in school (in a class actually) we were both casually dating/fooling around with other people. Then, after hanging out and sleeping together for about a month, him and I made the decision to see one another exclusively. At that point we both proceeded to stop seeing the others we were fooling around with.

All went well for about six months until he hooked up with some guy he claims he wasn't even attracted to while I was out of town. He broke down like a baby the next day and told me. The truth is, he could have gotten away with keeping it from me, but he sucked it up and was honest. He's been completely adoring and devoted ever since. Truth is I love him, and I respect him for being honest with me.

As for me, other than fantasies and porn, I have been faithful and will continue to be faithful.

I haven't.

My friend was unfaithful last night with a 32 year old married man. She's pretty damn caught in her lie right now, and she can bite my behind cause she's being a self centered cunt.
I would tell her that but I'm not involved, nor do I want to be.

EMMAh's hardcore!
EMMAh's hardcore!

Hardly

she's your age?

sounds like she has daddy issues.

She does man, I've said it for years.

EDIT: If you knew the drama that's going along with this action of hers, you would laugh. It's dumb on sooo many levels.

oh.

well that's not going to get cured with morality lectures. it's more deep rooted than that.

best thing you can do is laugh at her, i guess, ha ha ha--

does anyone remember amy fisher?

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more better :D

Yes, with this cute 18 year old. That was a long time ago.

i got cheated on, it wasn't fun.

I regret doing it. There is no good excuse for it, even though at the time I felt neglected by him. If I have to repeat the scene again I would not do it.

No (edited because of unintended possible puns...).