i feel i'm driven enough to be up to the contest. maybe i'm the one dropping them

the point i'm trying to make is the potential for total, maximum passion.

I'm not sure what an independent woman is. I suppose independence in men and women can be intimidating. I think everyone is independent when it comes down to it .

Basically I look for a girl that is not hesitant to tell me that I'm full of shit and will laugh at my pretentious witticisms.

I like you already, but I'm not coming on to you.

This is the Sonic Youth board. Most of the men here had their first masturbation fantasy dreaming of Kim Gordon beating them into submission.

Oh god yes, I love independent women.

Boys go to jupiter to get more stupider/Girls go to mars, become rock stars

*changes pants*

Re: deadair
haha I don't know about that, at least not for me. i'm talking about equality in ferocity.

interesting point though

Well, that ought to redeem them for not doing the washing up then, oughtn't it?

I'm here all week, folks.

But in all seriousness, is there some elemental part of you that enjoys rescuing proverbial damsels in distress? Some aspect of your being, however tiny or suppressed, that wants to feel needed? The radio show folk unanimously agreed that everyone wants to feel needed to a degree, and I suspect there may be some truth to that, regardless of gender.

Excepting me, of course. I am far too lazy and narcissistic to take responsibility for others.

I don't care for damsels or distress.
Women just enjoy labels.I think that's the problem. Why do they have to be 'independent women'. Why not just be a 'woman' and get on with it. You never hear anyone saying do you like 'independent men'? It's all rather pathetic. I suppose it's all a part of a dress up mentality,left over from a girls childhood, or something.

Let's ask Carl Jung!

Or maybe it is because that women have traditionally been cast as support for men since long before the 50's and despite all the feminist rhetoric the mentality still exists? I know a number of women that have decided to do the whole marriage, pregnancy, house wife thing in their twenties. A lot women I know still wait for men to ask them out instead of asking the men out.

When you treat a woman like a woman (traditionally speaking) they complain. When you don't, they complain. The common denominator is?

What do you mean treated like a woman?

i wished that film was a slasher movie so all the characters would get killed

You know, slapping them around and passing them up for promotions.

I believe I explained. But just you.When one is 'chivalrous'.


I knew someone would say that.