i suppose it depends who its with. if you dont feel comfortable with someone then it wont really work. its no good if one person makes it happen and the other doesnt.

That's a cliched answer. You'll find that not everyone is into doing it right either. There are plenty of people who are just happy having none or at least only an approximation of it. The whole litany of: '' Blah blah blah, sex is the best thing in the world etc etc'' is just a tad simplistic. I can understand that you are a reproductive creature and i'm not, but still that means nothing. Oh, and the whole thing about being in a bad mood just because one isn't having enough sex i find generally plain irritating too. It's not as if you have to fuck everytime you get into bed with someone, you know?

i want to lie in bed with someone *sigh*

oh shut up

hey toilet bowl...fuck you...

lust helps... and I would presume being dishonest isn't boring either... Try and count to 1000, if you can easily do that without losing track then it is definately boring for you... maybe try something other than sex. umm, scrabble?

nobody is interested in your whining self-pity, if you want to get laid so bad why don't you stop crying on the internet and go out and do something about it?

The fact that you care enough to offer an encouragement is a bit odd too... and the fact that I am sitting here replying is odd too.... sex MUST be boring.... besides ASP.NET is boring but I still do that... and brushing my teeth is really boring but I still do that at least once a day. Am I missing someones point?

whats wrong man? whats the matter..come on tell me

solo sex is good. at least no one gets hurt, unless your michael hutchence.

priceless!!

i wrote a song

"obscene machine"
shes my lover
shes made of rubber
shes emma the obscene machine

i come up from behind
never age, for ever mine
shes emma the obscene machine

*more to come*

jeezus johnson...

my condolences

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after reading this thread, i'll modify my answer:

unfeeling sex is boring. mechanical sex is boring. if you're not having fun in the sack, maybe you need to take a look at your relationship. sorry to break the bad news but it's true.

sex is teh sexorz.

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Sex is probably the least boring thing in the world.

You're right. Some people are worse than sex.

sorry porkie but it's true! when men's pipes clog they produce a general crankiness that may not be conscious, but it's there in the background, lurking and waiting to strike... just like being hungry or devoid of sleep, but more subtle...

That's if they don't have any other outlet for things other than a shag.

sorry, but "sublimating" doesn't cut it for the body. human touch is very important for sanity & general happiness. the reason the catholic church is crazy is because of the celibacy requirement. oh those pedophile priests and bitter nuns! poisonous people.

Did you actually read my post? I don't know how it works for you straights but in some cases it's different if you're gay. You can still go out and sleep with someone without having sex with them .And be happy too.